You are focusing on the wrong thing. Read this.

When I paid off my 6-figure student loans (and my spouse’s) 4 years ago, I started to shift my focus.

One of my focuses is not playing status games.

Some of the things that are no longer my priority are:

  • looking to change the world.
  • looking to build the next big thing.
  • looking to pursue a title.
  • looking for more projects, people, etc.

I used to think of wanting to get the highest valuation (i.e. profit) but that changed…

Where I am in life now with a growing family, I shift my focus to:

  • spend time with my wife and toddlers.
  • fly out to visit my family and in-laws anytime.
  • work on projects that will have an impact.
  • have meaningful conversations.

When you list out priorities in your life, it can change the course of action. Then, you start to take a different path with intentionality.

What are you doing now? Living someone else’s life? Or living your own?


When you’re ready to start living a life on your own terms, you can start with something affordable by taking the 7 Day Shift now.

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