Category: mindset

  • The Step Parents Can Take Today to Start an Online Business with Part-Time Hours

    From Research to Action: How Parents with Full-Time Jobs Can Start an Online Business


    Wrapping Up Q3: Proof That Part-Time Work Can Pay Off

    As we wrap up Q3 this year, I’ve generated nearly $20K in the last two months—working only part-time hours. This is in addition to my part-time job doing sales with another company.

    That steady income gives me the stability to build this on the side until it takes off. Now that I’m finishing up this project, my next focus is creating a system to bring new clients into the pipeline for Q4. My goal is to close out the year strong and step into the new year with momentum and a full pipeline that sets me up to scale.


    How Coaching and Mentorship Made This Possible

    None of this would have been possible without coaching and mentorship in the high-ticket sales space.

    The skills and experience I’ve gained have translated directly into building this additional income stream, all while working part-time hours. More importantly, I’ve discovered something I truly enjoy—work that has meaningful impact and aligns with my values and vision.

    And this is just the beginning.


    For Parents Stuck in Research Mode

    If you’re reading this as a parent with a full-time job, I know what you’re probably thinking:
    “That sounds great, but I don’t know where to start.”

    I’ve been there too—stuck in research mode, overwhelmed with options, trying to figure out the “perfect” pathbefore taking the first step. The truth is, the perfect time or plan doesn’t exist. What moves you forward is action.


    How You Can Get Started

    I’m opening spots to train, coach, and mentor parents who want to learn how to build a profitable online business—even while working full-time. I’ll give you the blueprint you need to get started and guide you every step of the way.

    The only requirements:

    • Willingness to invest in yourself
    • Being coachable
    • Taking consistent action
    • Ability to adapt and pivot along the way

    Confidence doesn’t come first—it’s built by doing, making mistakes, learning lessons, and moving forward stronger.


    A Message for Those On the Fence

    For those of you still on the fence, caught in research mode or stuck in analysis paralysis—this is your moment.

    I’d rather have you make a clear decision—whether it’s a “yes” or a “no”—than stay stuck in “maybe.” Because “maybe” keeps you exactly where you are.


    What You’ll Gain Beyond Income

    Taking action won’t just help you financially. You’ll also gain:

    • Health and well-being benefits
    • Increased time freedom and flexibility
    • The ability to build a business aligned with your values

    Once you learn these skills, you can apply them to build your own business and create a lifestyle that gives you more freedom.


    Next Steps

    If this speaks to you, let’s connect. I’d love to learn more about you, your goals, and your dreams.

    Take action today—your future self will thank you.


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  • From Survival Mode to Growth Mode: A Wake-Up Call for the Deaf Community

    Let’s be real for a moment.

    After years of facing barriers — communication gaps, lack of access, being underestimated or overlooked — many Deaf individuals (myself included) have learned to just “deal with it” and move on. No time to process. No room to feel. Just survive.

    But survival mode isn’t meant to last forever.

    The Loop We Don’t Talk About Enough

    Over time, survival becomes a mindset. A loop. One that quietly shapes how we see the world and what we believe is possible for ourselves.

    It might sound like:

    • “It’s always harder for us.”
    • “Nothing ever changes.”
    • “Why even try?”

    The dangerous part?

    You can still look strong on the outside — showing up for work, parenting, even achieving success — but deep down, feel stuck, tired, and unseen.

    This mindset can feel like protection. But it can also become your ceiling.

    If you’re curious to explore this deeper, here’s a post about mindset and how it might be showing up in your life.

    A Hard Question That Changed Everything

    Here’s the question that woke me up:

    What if my current mindset is what’s holding me back — more than the system, the job, or the people around me?

    That’s not an easy question. It requires honesty. It requires vulnerability. But it also opens the door to something powerful:

    Growth.

    If you’re ready to explore how to take action and shift that mindset into momentum, here’s a resource that walks you through the first steps.

    What Growth Mindset Really Means

    Let’s clear something up — growth mindset isn’t about pretending everything’s fine or ignoring the real challenges we face as Deaf individuals.

    It’s about believing you have the power to learn, adapt, and move forward — even when it’s hard. Especially when it’s hard.

    It’s about saying:

    • “I can learn new skills.”
    • “I can change my situation.”
    • “I don’t have to stay stuck just because I’ve been stuck.”

    Here’s a link where I explain more about the difference between fixed and growth mindset and how it directly impacts our daily lives.

    How I Started to Shift

    This didn’t happen overnight. But here’s what helped me:

    • I got around people who challenged how I think

    Growth doesn’t happen in isolation.

    • I stopped explaining myself to people who weren’t willing to understand

    Protect your energy.

    • I took small steps toward something new

    Momentum is more powerful than motivation.

    If you’re ready to start taking small steps too, I made this guide to help you take action without feeling overwhelmed.

    If You’re in the In-Between…

    You’re not stuck. You’re just between chapters.

    If you’re a Deaf parent, a professional, or someone who knows deep down that there’s more for you — more time, more freedom, more impact — this is your reminder that you’re not alone and that something better is possible.

    You don’t have to leap. You just have to shift.

    Let’s Start the Conversation

    I’d love to hear from you.

    What part of this post resonated with you?

    Drop a comment and share your thoughts.

    Or if you prefer a more private conversation, feel free to send me a message. I’d be happy to connect.

  • Mental Health vs. Mindset: What’s the Difference and Why Both Matter

    Before we dive into this topic, I want to share something personal.

    I’ve been seeing more posts and vlogs from Deaf individuals—some sharing their thoughts, others venting frustrations or expressing strong opinions. And from watching these, I’ve started noticing how much our thoughts and behaviours reflect what’s going on inside—especially in how we think.

    Now, I’m not a psychologist or a licensed mental health counsellor. This is just a personal observation—shaped by my own journey and conversations with people I’ve met along the way. But it’s made something really clear to me:

    Taking care of our mental health and our mindset is crucial if we want to make real change.

    If you’ve ever felt stuck, drained, constantly saying “I can’t,” or trapped in a situation—whether it’s money, health, or the environment you’re in—then this is for you.

    It’s my intent to raise awareness. Because if you feel like there’s more out there for you, there probably is. And it starts inside.

    Let’s begin.

    We often hear the words mental health and mindset, but they’re not the same thing. Still, they go hand in hand—and understanding the difference (and connection) between the two can be life-changing.

    Let’s break it down in simple terms.

    🧠 What Is Mental Health?

    Mental health is about how you’re doing emotionally and mentally overall. It includes how you handle stress, relate to others, and make choices. If you’re often feeling anxious, overwhelmed, or disconnected, that’s a sign your mental health might need attention.

    It’s kind of like physical health—but for your thoughts and emotions.

    💭 What Is Mindset?

    Mindset is your attitude or belief system. It’s the way you view challenges, success, failure, and your own potential.

    For example:

    • If you believe you can grow and learn through effort, that’s a growth mindset.
    • If you believe you’re stuck with the way things are, that’s a fixed mindset.

    Mindset is all about how you think.

    Mental health is about how you feel.

    🔄 How They’re Connected

    Mental health and mindset influence each other.

    A positive mindset can improve your mental health. For instance, if you believe “I can get through this,” you’re more likely to feel hopeful during tough times.

    On the flip side, if your mental health is struggling—like dealing with anxiety or burnout—it becomes harder to maintain a healthy mindset.

    It’s a two-way street:

    Your thoughts affect your feelings.

    Your feelings affect your thoughts.

    💥 Why You Should Care About Both

    When you take care of your mental health, you’re giving yourself the emotional strength to show up in life.

    When you build a strong mindset, you’re training your brain to keep going—even when life gets hard.

    Together, they help you:

    • Stay motivated and focused
    • Bounce back from setbacks
    • Make confident decisions
    • Feel more at peace and in control

    🌱 Tips to Strengthen Both Mental Health & Mindset

    Here are simple habits you can start right away:

    For Mental Health:

    • Get enough sleep – Your brain needs rest to function well.
    • Move your body – Physical movement boosts your mood and energy.
    • Talk it out – Don’t carry stress alone. Find someone safe to talk to.
    • Take breaks – Give yourself time to breathe and reset.
    • Be kind to yourself – Practice self-compassion, especially on hard days.

    For Mindset:

    • Watch your self-talk – Replace “I can’t do this” with “I’m learning.”
    • Set small, doable goals – Progress builds belief.
    • Practice gratitude – Write down 3 good things each day.
    • Stay inspired – Surround yourself with positive people, books, or podcasts.
    • Celebrate effort, not just results – Growth comes from showing up.

    💬 Final Thought

    Mental health gives you the foundation to feel balanced.

    Mindset gives you the courage to move forward.

    Nurture both, and you’ll be better equipped to handle life’s ups and downs—and build the life you actually want.

    If you’re tired of feeling stuck, know this: change is possible. But it doesn’t start “out there.” It starts within—with your thoughts, your feelings, and the way you care for yourself.

    There’s more out there for you.

    Let this be your reminder to take that first step.


    P.S. If you’ve been feeling constantly tired, foggy, or short-fused—even after trying some of the tips in this post—it might be your body trying to tell you something deeper. There’s a simple change that could make a big difference.

  • Change Your Environment, Change Your Life

    I’ve been working on building my online business for a while now across different social media platforms and in other ways too.

    Even though my follower count hasn’t grown much and the likes on my posts are still pretty quiet, something way more meaningful has been happening. I’ve shared video messages that really resonated with people—and they’ve been reaching out.

    I’ve had real conversations in the DMs, and I’ve been able to support more people. Some are now building businesses that fit into their life—instead of constantly trying to fit their life around their work.

    As I’ve gone through this journey as a solopreneur, I’ve shifted my focus. I’m no longer chasing numbers—I’m just showing up, having honest conversations, and helping people without expecting anything back.

    And you know what? That shift has led to real connections and trust. Both personally and professionally.

    I’ve also become much more mindful of who I let into my space. I avoid the constant complainers, the gossipers, and the negative energy. I choose to surround myself with people who have goals. People who take action. People who solve problems.

    And throughout this process, I’ve realized something big:

    It’s not just mindset that changes your life.

    It’s not just willpower.

    It’s not just habits.

    It’s your environment.

    Your home.

    Your workspace.

    Your friends.

    Your circle.

    Those things shape your entire life.

    That’s why I’m leaning hard into this truth:

    Change your environment, change your life.

    Lately, I started a community for like-minded folks who are looking to make a shift—whether that’s building an online business or side hustle to create more freedom, or simply making more conscious choices about their health.

    A lot of people in the group are health-conscious and looking for better, high-quality health products for themselves, their families, spouses, or kids.

    If this speaks to you—if you’re in a season where you’re looking for a change—I’d love to connect.

    Reach out. Let’s chat.

    Whether it’s business, health, or just creating a life that actually feels good, I’m here for the conversation.

  • What is a creative outlet? (And how do I leverage it to make an impact?)

    I asked Chat GPT this question and this is the response I received:

    A creative outlet is a means of expressing oneself and channeling creativity. It can be any activity or medium that allows individuals to explore their imagination, emotions, and ideas. Examples of creative outlets include painting, writing, playing an instrument, dancing, crafting, and photography. Engaging in a creative outlet can bring joy, fulfillment, and a sense of personal expression. It can also serve as a way to relieve stress and explore new possibilities.

    It’s pretty accurate in what I do. I love what I do because it is an outlet where I can manifest my creativity. With the ability to connect and converse with people sparks my creativity whether they’re roadblocks, barriers, or conflicts. Like diamonds, they are a result of being under pressure. Creativity is like that under some kind of restriction and results into something beautiful out of it.

    As a Deaf person, the problem isn’t me being Deaf or even Deafness itself. It’s the systemic barriers being imposed. In my case, I’m referring to audism. It’s always been there long before it even had a name. Like death, it’s inevitable. So, we just need to learn to manage it with tools and resources with a community. It’s a team effort and requires a community to make it through.

    However, it’s deeper than that. It’s all from within. Our drive, perseverance and more importantly, our mindset. What drives our mindset though is finding and understanding our why. By focusing on audism, we’re just simply banging ourselves against a wall. Like I mentioned, death is inevitable. So, what do families do in preparation for death? They get life insurance, critical illness, wills, estates and a funeral plan.

    With audism, we create inclusion and access by raising awareness about Deaf Culture, teach ASL, provide ASL interpreting services, and so on. There are many ways Deaf people and allies with entrepreneurial spirits pushing through to create solutions getting over the hurdle.

    This goes back to what I love I’m doing. Creating stories, creating solutions that matter and creating impact. My creative outlet is an opportunity to transform Deaf lives and the community through meaningful conversations.

  • 10 Productivity Tips For You to Be Successful

    Ever wonder how successful people are more productive? Here are some time-saving tips for productivity:

    1. Prioritize tasks:

    1. Prioritize tasks based on urgency and importance, and tackle the most important tasks first.

    2. Use a task list:

    1. Use a task list to keep track of tasks and goals. This can help you stay organized and focused.

    3. Set goals and deadlines:

    1. Set clear goals and deadlines to help you stay on track and motivated.

    4. Avoid multitasking:

    1. Avoid multitasking, as it can actually decrease productivity. Instead, focus on one task at a time.

    5. Take breaks:

    1. Take regular breaks to give your brain time to recharge. This can help boost productivity and reduce stress.

    6. Minimize distractions:

    1. Minimize distractions by turning off notifications, closing unnecessary apps, and finding a quiet workspace.

    7. Use productivity tools:

    1. Use productivity tools such as time-tracking apps, project management software, and automation tools to help you streamline your work.

    8. Delegate tasks:

    1. Delegate tasks to others if possible. This can help you focus on your most important tasks and save time.

    9. Batch similar tasks:

    1. Batch similar tasks together, such as responding to emails or making phone calls. This can help you work more efficiently.

    10. Set boundaries:

    1. Set boundaries for your work hours and stick to them. This can help you maintain a work-life balance and avoid burnout.

    In summary, time-saving tips for productivity include prioritizing tasks, using a task list, setting goals and deadlines, avoiding multitasking, taking breaks, minimizing distractions, using productivity tools, delegating tasks, batching similar tasks, and setting boundaries. By incorporating these practices into your daily routine, you can save time and increase your productivity.

    Which one of these time-saving productivity tips did you like and why? What other tips do you have that wasn’t mentioned here?

  • Stuck in a thinking rut? Read these tips to enhance creativity and innovative thinking!

    During my career, I learned that my degrees became less important. They gave me advantages in certain situations but these skills are what complemented my education and got me to where I am now. Here are some tips for enhancing creativity and innovative thinking:

    1. Keep an open mind:

    1. Try to keep an open mind and be receptive to new ideas and perspectives.

    2. Explore new experiences:

    1. Seek out new experiences, places, and people. This can help expand your worldview and stimulate new ideas.

    3. Practice brainstorming:

    1. Set aside time for brainstorming and generating new ideas. Write down all ideas, even if they seem silly or impractical.

    4. Challenge assumptions:

    1. Challenge assumptions and question the status quo. This can help identify new solutions and approaches.

    5. Embrace failure:

    1. Don’t be afraid of failure or making mistakes. Failure is often a necessary part of the creative process and can lead to new insights and breakthroughs.

    6. Collaborate with others:

    1. Collaborate with others to generate new ideas and perspectives. Working with a diverse team can bring new insights and approaches to problem-solving.

    7. Take breaks:

    1. Take regular breaks and give yourself time to recharge. This can help refresh your mind and stimulate new ideas.

    8. Practice mindfulness:

    1. Practice mindfulness and meditation to help reduce stress and promote a clear mind. This can help enhance creativity and focus.

    In summary, enhancing creativity and innovative thinking involves keeping an open mind, exploring new experiences, practicing brainstorming, challenging assumptions, embracing failure, collaborating with others, taking breaks, and practicing mindfulness. By incorporating these practices into your daily life, you can enhance your creative thinking and problem-solving abilities.

    Which one of these tips did you like? Comment below!

  • 8 Strategies for Effective Problem-Solving

    When you find yourself fixated on the problem, you need to shift to an effective approach to solve it. Here are some strategies for effective problem-solving:

    1. Define the problem:

    Clearly define the problem you are trying to solve. Identify the underlying issues and factors contributing to the problem.

    2. Gather information:

    Gather as much information as possible about the problem. This can include data, opinions, and feedback from others.

    3. Brainstorm solutions:

    Generate as many possible solutions as you can, without evaluating them yet. Be creative and open-minded.

    4. Evaluate solutions:

    Evaluate each solution based on its feasibility, potential impact, and the likelihood of success.

    5. Choose a solution:

    Choose the solution that best addresses the problem while taking into account the feasibility, impact, and success probability.

    6. Implement the solution:

    Develop a plan to implement the chosen solution, including timelines, resources needed, and key milestones.

    7. Monitor progress:

    Track progress and make any necessary adjustments as you implement the solution.

    8. Evaluate results:

    Evaluate the results of the solution and determine if it was effective in addressing the problem.

    In summary, effective problem-solving involves defining the problem, gathering information, brainstorming solutions, evaluating solutions, choosing a solution, implementing the solution, monitoring progress, and evaluating results. By following these steps, you can address problems more effectively and make better decisions.

    Which one of these did you like? What other strategies do you use that wasn’t mentioned here? Comment below!

  • Have bad habits you want to break? Read these 7 tips.

    There comes to a point in our lives where we realize we have an addiction or a bad habit we want to break but need some tips.

    I got you. Here are some tips to overcome addiction and bad habits:

    1. Identify triggers:

    Identify the situations or emotions that trigger your addictive or negative behaviour. This can help you avoid these triggers or find healthier ways to cope with them.

    2. Seek support:

    Seek support from loved ones, a therapist, or a support group. Having a support system can provide accountability and encouragement.

    3. Develop a plan:

    Develop a plan for breaking the addictive or negative behaviour. This may include setting goals, creating a timeline, and identifying rewards for progress.

    4. Replace the behaviour:

    Replace the addictive or negative behaviour with a positive one. For example, if you are trying to quit excessive snacking on junk food, you could replace it with exercise or a healthy snack instead.

    5. Practice self-care:

    Practice self-care, including getting enough sleep, exercise, and healthy food. This can help improve your overall well-being and reduce stress.

    6. Celebrate progress:

    Celebrate progress and small wins. This can help keep you motivated and encourage continued progress.

    7. Be patient:

    Overcoming addiction or bad habits is a process that takes time and effort. Be patient with yourself and focus on progress, not perfection.

    In summary, to overcome addiction and bad habits, identify triggers, seek support, develop a plan, replace the behaviour, practice self-care, celebrate progress, and be patient. With time, effort, and support, it is possible to overcome addictive or negative behaviour and build a healthier lifestyle.

    What other ways do you do to overcome addiction or bad habits not mentioned?

  • 8 Tips You Need to Build Your Fitness Routine

    Here are some tips to build a regular exercise routine:

    1. Set a goal: Identify your fitness goals and create a plan to achieve them. Whether your goal is to lose weight, build muscle, or improve your overall health, having a clear objective can help motivate you to stick to a regular exercise routine.
    2. Start slowly: Start with short workouts and gradually increase the intensity and duration over time. This will help you avoid injury and burnout.
    3. Find an exercise you enjoy: Choose an activity you enjoy doing, whether it’s running, dancing, or swimming. When you enjoy your workout, it’s easier to make it a regular part of your routine.
    4. Make it a habit: Incorporate exercise into your daily routine, such as taking a walk during your lunch break or doing a quick workout before work. This can help make exercise a regular part of your daily routine.
    5. Get a workout partner: Find a workout partner or join a fitness class to help keep you accountable and motivated.
    6. Create a schedule: Plan your workouts in advance and schedule them in your calendar. This will help ensure you make time for exercise.
    7. Track your progress: Keep track of your progress, whether it’s with a fitness app or journal. Celebrate your accomplishments and use setbacks as motivation to keep going.
    8. Be flexible: Be flexible with your workout routine and adapt to changes in your schedule or circumstances. If you miss a workout, don’t give up. Get back on track as soon as possible.

    In summary, to build a regular exercise routine, set a goal, start slowly, find an exercise you enjoy, make it a habit, get a workout partner, create a schedule, track your progress, and be flexible.

    Where are you now with this? Share below!