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  • Deaf and Burned by MLM? It Might’ve Been a Pyramid Scheme — Here’s the Truth

    Recently, a video went viral in the Deaf community. A Deaf person shared their personal story about being involved in an MLM (multi-level marketing) business and strongly discouraged others from joining one.

    I want to offer a different perspective — not to dismiss anyone’s experience, but to clarify what many people are actually talking about when they say “MLM.” Because here’s the truth: what most people are calling MLM is really a pyramid scheme in disguise.

    And that difference matters. A lot.

    Let’s Start With the Basics: What’s the Difference?

    A pyramid scheme is an illegal and unethical business model. It focuses solely (or mostly) on recruiting others, with little to no real product being sold. These kinds of schemes are built like a house of cards — as soon as people stop recruiting, the entire structure collapses.

    On the other hand, a legitimate MLM or network marketing company is product-driven. The income comes from selling products, and while recruiting is an option, it is not required to make money. A true MLM allows someone to earn commissions purely from product sales.

    What Went Wrong for Many People

    The truth is, many people feel burned not because of MLM itself, but because of how they were introduced to it. Some common issues:

    • They joined something that was unsustainable from the start
    • They were pressured with hype and emotional manipulation
    • They didn’t receive proper support, mentorship, or training
    • They were promised “easy money” with no real effort or skill building

    That’s not ethical. And I don’t support that kind of approach.

    In fact, one of the worst things I’ve seen is people pressuring others to join — especially when they know the person is already in a financially stressful situation. That’s not only unethical, it’s predatory.

    But Let’s Also Be Honest About This…

    Yes, there are people out there who know how to press all the right buttons to make you sign up.

    But at the end of the day, we all have to own our decisions.

    That person said what you wanted to hear. They gave you hope, desire, possibility — and maybe, in that moment, you didn’t stop to ask the hard questions. You didn’t let yourself be skeptical.

    And I get it. You were looking for a way out. A way forward. But blaming “MLM” as a whole might be the wrong target.

    There Is a Right Way to Do This

    I’ve been in the world of high-ticket sales and network marketing for a while. And when done right, there’s so much value that can come from it — especially if you’re Deaf and want more control over your time and income.

    Through a legitimate MLM or sales mentorship program, you can learn:

    • How to persuade and influence ethically
    • How to sell with confidence
    • How to speak clearly and communicate value
    • How to build an online business from anywhere

    These aren’t just business skills — these are life skills. Whether you stay in MLM or move on to something else, those skills stay with you.

    So What Should You Do Next?

    Be smart. Be cautious. Do your research. Ask questions before jumping in. Make sure it’s product-based. Make sure there’s mentorship and training. And make sure you’re not being pressured into something that doesn’t feel right.

    But don’t let one bad experience (yours or someone else’s) block you from building a better future on your terms.

    Ready to Build an Online Business Your Way?

    If you’re Deaf and want to build an online business your way — with the right guidance, without pressure, and based on real skills — I’d love to connect.

    Fill out the form below to book a call with me:

  • You cannot avoid conflict and here are 8 strategies you can do in a conflict

    Conflict is inevitable. I view conflict as sand paper. The more we go through it, the more it shapes us. But it takes a certain skill. Effective conflict resolution is an important skill for personal and professional growth. Here are some strategies for resolving conflicts:

    1. Identify the problem:

    Identify the problem by clarifying what the conflict is about. This can help to focus the discussion on the key issue.

    2. Active listening:

    Listen actively to the other person’s perspective. This can help to understand the other person’s point of view and find a common ground.

    3. Empathy:

    Show empathy by acknowledging the other person’s feelings and emotions. This can help to build trust and understanding.

    4. Communication:

    Use effective communication to express your own feelings and thoughts. Use “I” statements to avoid sounding accusatory.

    5. Brainstorm solutions:

    Work collaboratively to come up with possible solutions to the conflict. Be creative and open to new ideas.

    6. Evaluate the solutions:

    Evaluate the potential solutions and consider the pros and cons of each. Identify the solution that is best for both parties.

    7. Reach an agreement:

    Agree on a solution that is acceptable to both parties. Put it in writing, if necessary, to avoid misunderstandings.

    8. Follow up:

    Follow up to ensure that the agreed-upon solution is implemented and that the conflict has been resolved.

    In summary, effective conflict resolution involves identifying the problem, active listening, empathy, effective communication, brainstorming solutions, evaluating the solutions, reaching an agreement, and following up. By incorporating these practices into your conflict resolution process, you can successfully resolve conflicts and build stronger relationships.

  • Advice I would give to my teenage self

    What advice would you give to your teenage self?

    The one advice I would give to my teenage self is a higher education degree does not necessarily correlate with a higher salary.

    Sure, it depends on the speciality but is not necessarily true for all degrees. In my case, all my degrees are liberal arts degrees.

    Another thing I’d add is that being a high paid employee doesn’t guarantee financial freedom. At the end of the day, employees are taxed. And especially more when they’re on the higher tax bracket.

    So, I’ll encourage my teenage self to explore the entrepreneurship path as well. This will come along with other skills to be developed as well.

    Anything else you’ll like to add that you want to advise to your teenage self?

  • Believe in Yourself

    Believing in yourself is a fundamental element of success and happiness in life. It means having a strong sense of confidence, self-worth, and trust in your abilities, talents, and potential. It is about having a positive mindset and a can-do attitude toward life’s challenges and opportunities.

    When you believe in yourself, you are more likely to:

    • take risks
    • pursue your dreams and goals
    • handle setbacks with resilience and determination

    You have a sense of purpose and direction that guides you toward success and fulfillment.

    Believing in yourself is not just about having blind faith in your abilities. It also involves developing self-awareness and a growth mindset. It requires acknowledging your strengths and weaknesses and having the willingness to learn and improve continuously.

    To cultivate self-belief, it is essential to surround yourself with positive influences such as:

    • supportive friends and family
    • mentors
    • role models who inspire you.

    Additionally, taking care of yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally is crucial by engaging in activities that bring you joy and fulfillment.

    Remember, self-belief is not something that happens overnight, but it is a process that takes time, effort, and patience. As you develop a stronger sense of self-belief, you will find that your life becomes more meaningful, fulfilling, and successful. So, believe in yourself, trust in your abilities, and don’t be afraid to take on life’s challenges with confidence and resilience.

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